– EARN –Caregiver Word of the Day
It came as quite a shock to me when I figured out that I couldn’t earn someone else’s love. It doesn’t matter how much you give, how much you sacrifice or how much you do. They either love you or they don’t.
If you are always taking on the responsibility for fixing someone else’s problem, and if you get caught up in the drama of their life and lose sight of your own, you may be in a co-dependent relationship.
After I’d been married to the father of my children for sixteen years (and unhappy for about fifteen-and-a-half) I said to him, “It occurs to me that for the last sixteen years both of us have always put your needs and wants first.”
You know how he responded? He said, […]