Recognizing Caregivers
A Little Appreciation Goes a Long Way
There are caregiver recognition weeks and months, and sometimes there are awards given at banquets to a caregiver who has done something amazing, but when you’re in the trenches and caring for someone who has a chronic condition, it can feel like like the hardest, most thankless job you’ve ever done.
When I met my friend Ginny for breakfast recently and asked, “How’s Mike?” She shrugged and said, “So-so.”
I said, “I’m sorry. I know this is hard for both you and Mike.”
Quite forcefully she said, “Thank you! Thank you for recognizing that it’s hard for me too! Everybody always says, ‘Poor Mike! Poor Mike!’ No one ever stops to think that this is hard for me too! […]